Toddlers: the terrible twos or do they really are?

NO!!!!! I don't like!!!!!

I love you Mama and Dada!!!!!!

Toilet training
Offer choices
Don't leave alone
Doubt vs. Autonomy
Love security object
Explorative
Rituals and Routines
Saying "NO"

During this stage, alot of developmental milestones can be observed in a growing toddler. He can sit and walk with or without support. At 15 months, he can already drink from a cup, stack two blocks, say up to six words, listen to a short story and use a spoon or fork. At 18 months, he can walk backwards, throw a ball, say up to ten words, point to body parts, and scribble with a crayon.

Physically, a toddler's weight is tripled at 1 year of age and height is increased by 50%. This time, his chest is bigger than his head when measured.  

To facilitate learning in your toddler, it is important to provide learning opportunities such as:

1. Let the child try new things.

2. Let him/her help in the housework.

3. Hand the child with big puzzle pieces.

4. Expose your toddler to dancing and singing.

5. Visit a playground and let him/her explore with your assistance.

6. Give him a mirror to appreciate his face.

Now, let's go to the basics of caring for your toddlers:

1. Toddlers can be very picky when eating foods. Always give him options to assert independence and make sure his nutritional status is not altered. Finger foods like cut sized chicken, fruits, vegetables, macaroni, and cereals are good food choices. 

2. Ignore tantrums and set limits. You may use "time out" in one room corner to discipline your toddler. Never shout because it just worsen the tantrums. 

3. Acknowledge his fears and tell he doesn't have to see his fears. Ask your toddler what would make him less afraid.

4. Observe for readiness in your child when doing potty training. Do not be disappointed if he does nothing and say "We'll try next time." Give incentives for him to remain longer on the potty chair.

5. Always allot playtime no matter how busy you are. It can be lying down on a couch, pointing body parts, bouncing balls etc.

Toddlers can be irritating at times but they are truly the joy in a family. Let me quote this bible verse; Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." Matthew 19:14